« A Catalogue of My Favorites: Part II | Home | A Nun’s Life Blog Updates »
Decoding Formation: Aspirancy/Pre-Candidacy
By Sister Julie | January 30, 2007
A while back I began a “series” called Decoding Formation.
- Decoding Formation: a basic introduction
- Decoding Formation: who me??
- Decoding Formation: Initial Inquiry
Here’s the next segment of the series. As mentioned in a basic introduction, each religious community may have its own particular nuances to the formation process, however, the basis for the formation process is discernment and the pattern for formation is similar.
Once a person has gone through the period of initial inquiry (discerning and learning more about a particular religious community) she may feel ready to take the next step which is formally preparing for applying to enter the community. The period of time when a person prepares to apply to join a community is called aspirancy or pre-candidacy. This period gets its name “aspirancy” because the person “aspires” to pursue her call to religious life through a particular community. The main work of this period of time is to continue the discernment and prayer that has been ongoing both in the life of the aspirant and in the community.
The person interested in joining begins to more formally study and experience the community’s lifestyle and spirituality. She may be invited to attend certain formation events or community events so that she can truly get a feel for the community. It is so important during this time that the person meet sisters, get to know them, and share her journey with them. Developing and tending to relationships are important aspects of community life.
When I lived in Toronto (5 hours away from the IHM Motherhouse in Monroe), I visited Monroe maybe once a month, but everytime I was there, various nuns would look out for me and be sure I had someone to eat with at lunch or sit with at an event. They made sure they introduced me to other sisters and took me around to the infirmary to meet sisters who weren’t up and about. Though I wasn’t living near Monroe, I met women then who have become my very dear friends. They are the people who helped get me through formation and the various joys and sorrows of life. They kept in touch with me and always welcomed me in Monroe. The events that I went to were important, but more important was the opportunity to get to know these women, to tell them my story and listen to their own. Somewhere in their, I/we discovered that we had a common story and that’s how I knew in part that this was to be home for me.
In addition to the ongoing formation and getting to know one another, there is a formal application process. Once there is a sense from both the woman and the community that the process should continue, the woman may ask to apply to formally enter the community. The application process is not for the faint of heart. It involves getting reports from physicians and psychologists that indicate that you are healthy of mind and body to join. It involves filling out forms with all your basic information, education and employment history, family, etc. Usually there is a series of “essay” questions in which you reflect on your call, your spirituality, your history, who you are, and how God has been at work in your life. Then there are interviews — interviews with formation personnel, leadership and/or sisters at large. Again this is an opportunity to learn more about one another. I say this is not for the faint of heart because a lot — I mean A LOT — of soul-searching takes place. The process of applying gives you a fabulous opportunity to take a look at yourself — mind, body, and spirit — and to integrate your whole self with this call from God. It is amazing as it is terrifying, yet it is all good because you are coming to know yourself better and God and the community. It may feel like you are laying everything out there — because you are — but let me tell you: it is worth it. Whether you end up joining the community or not, this is perhaps one of the most valuable times of your life.
During this time of aspirancy/pre-candidacy, the person maintains responsibility for herself. She financially supports herself and carries on all her ordinary responsibilities. Though she is in the act of applying, she is under no obligation to join. She is always free to leave at anytime. She is not under vows, though she most certainly will be trying to live as if she is as she grows more accustomed to the lifestyle. On the community’s part, there is no obligation to accept a person who applies nor is there an obligation to financially support her. This arrangement allows both parties to remain free in discerning the call. In this way neither the community nor the woman is beholden to the other. Both can freely listen to the Spirit and have that be the center of the relationship and decision.
Once the application process is complete and there is a sense of readiness on behalf of the woman and the community, leadership and/or formation sisters review the application, reflect on their experience with woman, and enter into a period of discernment. After this time, the community will convey it’s response to the woman applying. When the woman is accepted, she may enter the period of postulancy or candidacy. See next installment: Decoding Formation: Postulancy/Candidacy.
Topics: NUN 101, discernment, formation, vocations |
January 30th, 2007 at 1:29 pm
Julie, I could add the installment, nun’s life after 50 years of ministry!
Brigid
January 30th, 2007 at 1:30 pm
Julie, did you ever get my letter about the nun working with the “mole people”?
January 30th, 2007 at 1:42 pm
Hi Brigid … Thanks for the offer. I’d love to have a “guest nun” write the next installment on candidacy/postulancy. Send me an email with it. Many thanks! And yes, I got that article. It’s on my pile of stuff to blog about. I’ll get to it sometime! I am grateful for the stuff people send or suggest for things to blog on. Julie
January 31st, 2007 at 4:12 pm
This is most interesting and inspiring to read. I came back from a weekend at the Shrine of Our Lady, Little Walsingham (Norfolk, UK) in November, to my home in Chester (also in the UK) thinking a lot about my calling. Reading your blog isn’t shedding any light on where I’m supposed to go, but it’s definitely helping in knowing what I need to do to “dip a toe in the water” as it were.
Thanks a lot.
Louisa
February 5th, 2007 at 1:09 am
I’m enjoying the series…it’s interesting to see where orders are the same and different in the process. (Makes me feel vaguely wistful…I don’t regret my life (not in the least!), but it would’ve been a great experience to go through more than I did.)
April 6th, 2007 at 8:01 pm
Julie,
Thanks for the very informative and well written material in this series. As a vocation minister it is very helpful and is a good resource to use with women who are inquiring.
On another note…saw your mother on the local news here tonight as they interviewed her relative to your being in contention for a spot on next Friday’s National News. Hope America choses you.
September 3rd, 2007 at 3:58 pm
hello sister can open links for the other stages ie novice first vows ets
September 5th, 2007 at 12:53 am
Hi, just a quick one, the process you describe sounds exhausting and is definitely not for the faint-hearted. I know there are some communities in the uk - apostolic and contemplative that do all or some of the process. Here though it is much quieter and simpler and i think it reflects our life in the enclosure which is much slower. Here at Colwich we have one or more initial visits - i made only one - after several emails and a phone call. We do have talks with Mother Abbess, Mother Prioress and some of the other sisters come out to meet us in the parlour and get an impression of us.If it seems there is an attraction on both sides we can ask to come inside to experience the life a little, be part of the rythm and flow and i guess just be and see what God might be saying to us.If we want to take it further we can either go away to think or ask then and there to enter - it is really individual. I imagine all communities do what seems right for their own charism. I hope this helps. Adele.
September 11th, 2007 at 5:56 am
Noviceship — thanks for that … it is so helpful to hear from others’ experiences.
Margaret — as of this comment, I haven’t yet written about the other stages of formation. Thanks for the reminder! I’ll get to them soon!