Comments on: How to become a Catholic nun http://anunslife.org Catholic Sisters and Nuns in Today's World Thu, 24 May 2012 22:10:14 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1 By: cristine bajarin http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-57750 cristine bajarin Mon, 15 Mar 2010 04:03:20 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-57750 hello. thank you for this information it will help me a lot to decide if i shall continue being a nun in the future.. well i nedd to finish my studies first. im 3rd year secondary education student a math major and have the desire of becoming a nun. i hope that after my college i cxan find job so i can help my parents and after which i'll enter in this vocation... got to go to school and settle my prob.. byebye hello. thank you for this information it will help me a lot to decide if i shall continue being a nun in the future.. well i nedd to finish my studies first. im 3rd year secondary education student a math major and have the desire of becoming a nun. i hope that after my college i cxan find job so i can help my parents and after which i’ll enter in this vocation…
got to go to school and settle my prob.. byebye

]]> By: Joanna http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-54456 Joanna Thu, 28 Jan 2010 12:12:29 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-54456 I just would like to ask if there are any IHM convents here in the Philippines? I'm still deciding whether I'll enter the Dominican or the IHM. Thank you sisters. More power! I just would like to ask if there are any IHM convents here in the Philippines? I’m still deciding whether I’ll enter the Dominican or the IHM. Thank you sisters. More power!

]]> By: Brooke http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-53881 Brooke Thu, 21 Jan 2010 01:47:51 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-53881 I just want to thank you for this. I am 18 and over the past few years have seriously put thought into becoming a nun. This info has helped a lot. Thank you :) I just want to thank you for this. I am 18 and over the past few years have seriously put thought into becoming a nun. This info has helped a lot. Thank you :)

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-53443 Sister Julie Fri, 15 Jan 2010 13:38:21 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-53443 It's nice to meet you, Renzel! Do check out our <a href="http://anunslife.org/vocation-forum" rel="nofollow">Vocation Forum </a>and let us know if there's anything we can do to help. We'll continue to keep you in our prayers. It’s nice to meet you, Renzel! Do check out our Vocation Forum and let us know if there’s anything we can do to help. We’ll continue to keep you in our prayers.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-53442 Sister Julie Fri, 15 Jan 2010 13:33:35 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-53442 Hi Siouxsie, Glad to see you here on the blog and on the podcast. It's nice to meet you and learn a bit more about your story. Be assured of our prayers for you. I encourage you to check out the <a href="http://www.anunslife.org/vocation-forum" rel="nofollow">Vocation Forum</a> here as you'll find a number of supporting, encouraging discerners who share honestly with one another about their experiences moving toward a calling like this. If you are interested in getting to know an active community of sisters, let me know and I can help you make a connection. We have some IHM Sisters in the area too -- Orange County (I think that's somewhere near San Diego! I'm such an East Coast girl!) -- both of whom have been instrumental in my own discernment and formation. I'll also check in with Sister Maxine about your concerns and maybe we can respond via our "Ask Sister" podcast tonight. Sometimes easier to talk it through! And of course, our prayers are with you. Hi Siouxsie, Glad to see you here on the blog and on the podcast. It’s nice to meet you and learn a bit more about your story. Be assured of our prayers for you. I encourage you to check out the Vocation Forum here as you’ll find a number of supporting, encouraging discerners who share honestly with one another about their experiences moving toward a calling like this. If you are interested in getting to know an active community of sisters, let me know and I can help you make a connection. We have some IHM Sisters in the area too — Orange County (I think that’s somewhere near San Diego! I’m such an East Coast girl!) — both of whom have been instrumental in my own discernment and formation. I’ll also check in with Sister Maxine about your concerns and maybe we can respond via our “Ask Sister” podcast tonight. Sometimes easier to talk it through! And of course, our prayers are with you.

]]> By: Siouxsie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-53263 Siouxsie Wed, 13 Jan 2010 21:35:22 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-53263 Hello sister julie, i recently found your website about 2 days ago. I have recently opened to the idea of being a nun. I have tried to ignore it or to put it off, but it is still itching at me. The only place I know of is the Trinitarians of Mary here in San Diego, Tecate, Mexico., and Michigan. I think If I decide I would want to be Active but I know that theyre contemplative ... but I still dont know. I've given this so much thought and I just felt the calling a few days ago. I think Im getting ahead of myself, but I know how this works in a way. I have 3 generations of Nuns and Priests in my family, it is kind of a tradition. Im in the 4th generation, and im a tehology major, therefore everyone wants me to be a nun, I know more than anything that everyone would be thrilled if I did decide upon this, but its scares me that if I do, i will be forced into it. I dont know If I am or I will, its only been 5 days the most since I prayed to the sacred heart of Jesus and I felt his call. I need some advice ... or reassurement, or even an opinion. Please also pray for me, so that I can understand Gods message, because maybe all he wants is a more devout life to him .... Im only 20 years old! Thanks. Best, Siouxsie Hello sister julie, i recently found your website about 2 days ago. I have recently opened to the idea of being a nun. I have tried to ignore it or to put it off, but it is still itching at me. The only place I know of is the Trinitarians of Mary here in San Diego, Tecate, Mexico., and Michigan. I think If I decide I would want to be Active but I know that theyre contemplative … but I still dont know. I’ve given this so much thought and I just felt the calling a few days ago. I think Im getting ahead of myself, but I know how this works in a way. I have 3 generations of Nuns and Priests in my family, it is kind of a tradition. Im in the 4th generation, and im a tehology major, therefore everyone wants me to be a nun, I know more than anything that everyone would be thrilled if I did decide upon this, but its scares me that if I do, i will be forced into it. I dont know If I am or I will, its only been 5 days the most since I prayed to the sacred heart of Jesus and I felt his call. I need some advice … or reassurement, or even an opinion. Please also pray for me, so that I can understand Gods message, because maybe all he wants is a more devout life to him …. Im only 20 years old!
Thanks.

Best,
Siouxsie

]]> By: joanna http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-53209 joanna Wed, 13 Jan 2010 13:19:58 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-53209 hello again, sister Julie! thank you so much for replying on my question. It helped me a lot.. :) I have another question: In this point of my life, I am still discerning. If I get to decide that I don''t be a sister, would I disappoint God? Will I make him sad? hello again, sister Julie!
thank you so much for replying on my question. It helped me a lot.. :)
I have another question:
In this point of my life, I am still discerning. If I get to decide that I don”t be a sister, would I disappoint God? Will I make him sad?

]]> By: Arleen http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-52952 Arleen Mon, 11 Jan 2010 18:35:28 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-52952 It is so good to touch base with women who have had the opportunity to make a commentment to God by serviing humanity either in a life of prayer and contemplation or more active in a community of teaching or nursing. I am almost 64 years old, my husband died almost 2 years ago. I have 2 children and 4 grand children. I still work full time as a school nurse. I wanted to become a carmilite nun when I was 18 years old. My parents forbid me to go to the convent, they wanted grand children. I did what they wanted, I married and had children. I thank God that I was able to give my life to the Lord in another way besides being in the convent. I have had a very rich prayer life and my husband was a gracious loving person. We prayed together and did many things together. I did not have the opportunity to attend daily mass due to family obligations. I now look back upon my life, and oh yes, I still would like to become a carmilite nun, however, in reality I know that this would never be for me due to a variety of reasons. I have learned to meet Jesus in the students that I care for, in my children and grand children, and in all aspects of life. I am a well educated woman, I hold a BS degree in nursing, a masters in pastoral ministry and several certificates in many aspects of nursing and spirituality. I have written serveral articles for nursing publication and I teach spirituality classes. Perceptions of life have helped me to understand and trully know and believe that clothing or where one dwells does not make a person closer to Jesus. I know, believe and experience Jesus within my heart every minute of every day. I am a little envious that cloisterd nuns have the opportunity for quiet contemplation and prayer built into their day, however, I have made some of these same opportunities for myself. I attend daily mass as often as I can, and my heart leaps and I am over joyed to hear the word of God and to receive the Eucharist. I meditate often in many ways, walking in the early morning, while doing household chores, before my day at school begins. God puts us where we can best serve Him and for me I believe that I was placed in the world as a married woman, and now as a widow, to love and serve others in my own unique way. I can never look back and say I am sorry for not becoming a nun because I have had a very rich and fulfulled life. I know that God loves me very much. But I will admit that the yearning for the contemplative life has always been in my heart. Arleen It is so good to touch base with women who have had the opportunity to make a commentment to God by serviing humanity either in a life of prayer and contemplation or more active in a community of teaching or nursing.

I am almost 64 years old, my husband died almost 2 years ago. I have 2 children and 4 grand children. I still work full time as a school nurse.

I wanted to become a carmilite nun when I was 18 years old. My parents forbid me to go to the convent, they wanted grand children. I did what they wanted, I married and had children. I thank God that I was able to give my life to the Lord in another way besides being in the convent. I have had a very rich prayer life and my husband was a gracious loving person. We prayed together and did many things together. I did not have the opportunity to attend daily mass due to family obligations.

I now look back upon my life, and oh yes, I still would like to become a carmilite nun, however, in reality I know that this would never be for me due to a variety of reasons. I have learned to meet Jesus in the students that I care for, in my children and grand children, and in all aspects of life.

I am a well educated woman, I hold a BS degree in nursing, a masters in pastoral ministry and several certificates in many aspects of nursing and spirituality. I have written serveral articles for nursing publication and I teach spirituality classes.

Perceptions of life have helped me to understand and trully know and believe that clothing or where one dwells does not make a person closer to Jesus. I know, believe and experience Jesus within my heart every minute of every day. I am a little envious that cloisterd nuns have the opportunity for quiet contemplation and prayer built into their day, however, I have made some of these same opportunities for myself. I attend daily mass as often as I can, and my heart leaps and I am over joyed to hear the word of God and to receive the Eucharist. I meditate often in many ways, walking in the early morning, while doing household chores, before my day at school begins.

God puts us where we can best serve Him and for me I believe that I was placed in the world as a married woman, and now as a widow, to love and serve others in my own unique way. I can never look back and say I am sorry for not becoming a nun because I have had a very rich and fulfulled life. I know that God loves me very much. But I will admit that the yearning for the contemplative life has always been in my heart.

Arleen

]]> By: renzel http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-52811 renzel Sun, 10 Jan 2010 11:33:27 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-52811 hi Sr. Julie, since this thing is bugging up my mind (im attracted to religious life), i end up this dae(since its almost 12 hea coz i cnt sleep thinking about my feeling)reading helpful insights about religious life and it actualih answered almost all my questions. this is really very helpful sister! continue to share every insight you have each one is concerned about. ^^ its my pleasure to be here in A Nun's Life. shots foe d inspiring thoughts! GOD bless you more! ^^ hi Sr. Julie,

since this thing is bugging up my mind (im attracted to religious life), i end up this dae(since its almost 12 hea coz i cnt sleep thinking about my feeling)reading helpful insights about religious life and it actualih answered almost all my questions. this is really very helpful sister! continue to share every insight you have each one is concerned about. ^^ its my pleasure to be here in A Nun’s Life. shots foe d inspiring thoughts! GOD bless you more! ^^

]]> By: sacredfisher » Is God calling me? http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-52635 sacredfisher » Is God calling me? Fri, 08 Jan 2010 23:15:53 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-52635 [...] do you do now? Start reading and doing any of the suggestions on our page How to Become a Nun. Say something to that sister you admire but were afraid to say anything to about your desire. If [...] [...] do you do now? Start reading and doing any of the suggestions on our page How to Become a Nun. Say something to that sister you admire but were afraid to say anything to about your desire. If [...]

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-51699 Sister Julie Fri, 25 Dec 2009 21:35:32 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-51699 Hi Kate, Thanks for writing! You can most certainly use your gifts for and attraction to the field of medicine as a Catholic sister. I encourage you to consider an apostolic community (one that lives outside of a monastery and ministers in places like hospitals, clinics, schools, or other missions). An example would be my own <a href="http://ihmsisters.org" rel="nofollow">IHM community</a>. Also check out communities specifically dedicated to helping people improve their health, e.g., <a href="http://www.medicalmissionsisters.org/" rel="nofollow">Medical Mission Sisters</a> and the <a href="http://www.mmmusa.org/" rel="nofollow">Medical Missionaries of Mary</a>. Let us know if we can help. Hi Kate, Thanks for writing! You can most certainly use your gifts for and attraction to the field of medicine as a Catholic sister. I encourage you to consider an apostolic community (one that lives outside of a monastery and ministers in places like hospitals, clinics, schools, or other missions). An example would be my own IHM community. Also check out communities specifically dedicated to helping people improve their health, e.g., Medical Mission Sisters and the Medical Missionaries of Mary. Let us know if we can help.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-51696 Sister Julie Fri, 25 Dec 2009 21:06:33 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-51696 "How do I know if this is really my call?" That is a question I myself have said when I was discerning and it's one we hear a lot from folks. It's difficult for many of us to know <em>for certain</em> (handwriting in the sky or a visit from an angel would be nice! :) ). But faith calls us to more than that, to a listening heart, to a willingness to enter into the darkness for a time. It's okay, because even <a href="http://anunslife.org/2009/08/25/let-darkness-be-my-light/" rel="nofollow">darkness is its own form of light</a>! I'm not sure about that quote ... in my experience, the call is everything. God draws us to Godself in so many ways, always inviting us to grow in a deeper relationship and to become ourselves most fully, that is, become who we are created to be. If you feel your soul stirring and are attracted to religious life (even if it also makes you a little scared too!) I encourage you to pay attention to that. Take your feeling and your confusion to God with an open heart and just let God be present to you. No need to get an answer or to know "once and for all" -- just be with it and always take it before God. Whether or not you know it, you are already living into this call by exploring it a bit, by pondering it, by asking questions. This is all good, Joanna. Keep living into it -- learn about religious life, hang out with us and other sisters and nuns. Also, there are some <a href="http://anunslife.org/tag/decision-making/" rel="nofollow">discernment resources</a> that can help plus you might want to consider a spiritual director. And I encourage you to check out our <a href="http://anunslife.org/vocationforum" rel="nofollow">Vocation Forum</a> for a wonderful community of other people discerning their call. They are a great group and very welcoming! Our prayers are with you. Feel free to <a href="mailto:sister@anunslife.org" rel="nofollow">email us</a> anytime. “How do I know if this is really my call?” That is a question I myself have said when I was discerning and it’s one we hear a lot from folks. It’s difficult for many of us to know for certain (handwriting in the sky or a visit from an angel would be nice! :) ). But faith calls us to more than that, to a listening heart, to a willingness to enter into the darkness for a time. It’s okay, because even darkness is its own form of light!

I’m not sure about that quote … in my experience, the call is everything. God draws us to Godself in so many ways, always inviting us to grow in a deeper relationship and to become ourselves most fully, that is, become who we are created to be. If you feel your soul stirring and are attracted to religious life (even if it also makes you a little scared too!) I encourage you to pay attention to that. Take your feeling and your confusion to God with an open heart and just let God be present to you. No need to get an answer or to know “once and for all” — just be with it and always take it before God. Whether or not you know it, you are already living into this call by exploring it a bit, by pondering it, by asking questions. This is all good, Joanna. Keep living into it — learn about religious life, hang out with us and other sisters and nuns. Also, there are some discernment resources that can help plus you might want to consider a spiritual director. And I encourage you to check out our Vocation Forum for a wonderful community of other people discerning their call. They are a great group and very welcoming! Our prayers are with you. Feel free to email us anytime.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-51694 Sister Julie Fri, 25 Dec 2009 20:46:59 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-51694 Hi Kelly, this page has an overview of the steps of becoming a nun. Let me know if you have some specific questions or areas of concern. Regarding education, you don't necessarily need a college education but it's helpful. Blessings! Hi Kelly, this page has an overview of the steps of becoming a nun. Let me know if you have some specific questions or areas of concern. Regarding education, you don’t necessarily need a college education but it’s helpful. Blessings!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-51497 Sister Julie Tue, 22 Dec 2009 15:59:19 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-51497 Dear Debbie, Thank you for writing. Here are a couple of posts I've written that address your question. First I must say to be attentive to God's call to you. No matter what, God is inviting you to grow in your relationship with God. <a href="http://anunslife.org/2009/09/14/where-do-i-go-from-here/" rel="nofollow">Where do I go from here?</a> <a href="http://anunslife.org/2007/08/15/becoming-a-nun-after-40ish/" rel="nofollow">Becoming a Nun after 40ish</a> We also have a Vocation Forum here at A Nun's Life -- there is <a href="http://anunslife.org/vocation-forum/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=102" rel="nofollow">a thread for women over 50</a>. Also, I've been talking with a number of people about pursing a vocation to religious life when one is past the age of 50. I'd like to find a way to get people together to actually pursue something, a way to discern this calling and see what it might mean for religious communities and the women themselves. If you (or another a person reading) are interested, let me know by <a href="mailto:sister@anunslife.org" rel="nofollow">email</a>. Stay in touch, Debbie. We'll keep you in our prayers. Dear Debbie, Thank you for writing. Here are a couple of posts I’ve written that address your question. First I must say to be attentive to God’s call to you. No matter what, God is inviting you to grow in your relationship with God.

Where do I go from here?
Becoming a Nun after 40ish

We also have a Vocation Forum here at A Nun’s Life — there is a thread for women over 50.

Also, I’ve been talking with a number of people about pursing a vocation to religious life when one is past the age of 50. I’d like to find a way to get people together to actually pursue something, a way to discern this calling and see what it might mean for religious communities and the women themselves. If you (or another a person reading) are interested, let me know by email.

Stay in touch, Debbie. We’ll keep you in our prayers.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-51496 Sister Julie Tue, 22 Dec 2009 15:46:49 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-51496 Hi Ashley, Sister Maxine and I talked a bit about your question on our podcast. Take a listen and then feel free to <a href="mailto:sister@anunslife.org" rel="nofollow">email us</a> directly. Hi Ashley, Sister Maxine and I talked a bit about your question on our podcast. Take a listen and then feel free to email us directly.

]]> By: Ashley B. http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-51189 Ashley B. Thu, 17 Dec 2009 17:30:40 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-51189 Hi, Sister Julie. I am 18 years old and became a mother to my beautiful daughter, Shelby, this past January. Since then, I've felt a strong pull toward becoming a Catholic. I grew up attending a Freewill Baptist church and was saved and baptized at four years old. I am still a member of that church, although I rarely attend. I want - and need - to get back into a church. I sometimes feel as if this "pull" toward Catholicism is merely some spur-of-the-moment decision that I thought up one day. My entire family is Baptist and I don't know who to talk to or where to turn about my decision. Is there any advice or guidance you can give me? Thank you, Ashley Hi, Sister Julie.
I am 18 years old and became a mother to my beautiful daughter, Shelby, this past January. Since then, I’ve felt a strong pull toward becoming a Catholic. I grew up attending a Freewill Baptist church and was saved and baptized at four years old. I am still a member of that church, although I rarely attend. I want – and need – to get back into a church.
I sometimes feel as if this “pull” toward Catholicism is merely some spur-of-the-moment decision that I thought up one day. My entire family is Baptist and I don’t know who to talk to or where to turn about my decision.
Is there any advice or guidance you can give me?
Thank you,
Ashley

]]> By: Debbie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-51113 Debbie Wed, 16 Dec 2009 14:46:49 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-51113 Sister Julie, I am probably too old to be writing you. I am 55. I am a professional woman I hold both a B.A. & M.S. in Speech/Language Pathology. My children are grown and my husband is deceased. I had wanted to be a nun when I was growing up but my parents discouraged it. Is there any chance for me? Debbie Sister Julie,

I am probably too old to be writing you. I am 55. I am a professional woman I hold both a B.A. & M.S. in Speech/Language Pathology.
My children are grown and my husband is deceased. I had wanted to be a nun when I was growing up but my parents discouraged it. Is there any chance for me?

Debbie

]]> By: kelly edmiston http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-51060 kelly edmiston Tue, 15 Dec 2009 23:25:26 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-51060 I just wanted to know how one goes about becomeing a nun and if you need a good education to become one ? I just wanted to know how one goes about becomeing a nun and if you need a good education to become one ?

]]> By: Joanna http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-50917 Joanna Mon, 14 Dec 2009 14:22:02 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-50917 Hello Sister Julie! I have been reading your posts since I started to have the feeling that I am being called by God. I know that the road to become a sister is not that easy, but I know I can surpass this with God's help. A friend texted me last night and I shared to him what I had in mind. He told me that "MANY ARE CALLED, BUT FEW ARE CHOSEN". I feel sad because i'm not sure if i will be the one of those who are chosen. Sister, is it always like that? And how will i know if this is really my call? please help me.. MAY GOD BLESS YOU MORE! joanna Hello Sister Julie!
I have been reading your posts since I started to have the feeling that I am being called by God. I know that the road to become a sister is not that easy, but I know I can surpass this with God’s help.

A friend texted me last night and I shared to him what I had in mind. He told me that “MANY ARE CALLED, BUT FEW ARE CHOSEN”. I feel sad because i’m not sure if i will be the one of those who are chosen.

Sister, is it always like that? And how will i know if this is really my call? please help me..

MAY GOD BLESS YOU MORE!

joanna

]]> By: Kate http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-50447 Kate Mon, 07 Dec 2009 20:20:12 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-50447 Hello everyone!!! So, I am a senior in high school. Ever since I was in 6th grade, I have always wanted to go into the Medical Field. I still feel that GOD wants me to possibly use this in some way. Last fall (Fall of 2008, my Junior year), I felt some sort of yearning or unrestlessness, and something clicked, and becoming a Nun came into my head. I was wondering if there is something out there where I can be a Nun, but also possibly use medicin to help others. Any information would be great! Thanks! ~Kate~ Hello everyone!!!

So, I am a senior in high school. Ever since I was in 6th grade, I have always wanted to go into the Medical Field. I still feel that GOD wants me to possibly use this in some way. Last fall (Fall of 2008, my Junior year), I felt some sort of yearning or unrestlessness, and something clicked, and becoming a Nun came into my head. I was wondering if there is something out there where I can be a Nun, but also possibly use medicin to help others. Any information would be great!

Thanks!

~Kate~

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-50047 Sister Julie Wed, 02 Dec 2009 21:43:43 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-50047 Thanks, Stephen! Thanks, Stephen!

]]> By: Stephen Pardy http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-50034 Stephen Pardy Wed, 02 Dec 2009 18:04:51 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-50034 Good morning and blessings on this ministry. We have just produced a 28 minute DVD in English and Spanish with study guide for those interested in becoming a nun. Here is a you tube blurb ont he DVD for your information. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Uxv4AddYOE Please fill free to distribute this Vocational Material for anyone interested. Good morning and blessings on this ministry. We have just produced a 28 minute DVD in English and Spanish with study guide for those interested in becoming a nun. Here is a you tube blurb ont he DVD for your information. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5Uxv4AddYOE
Please fill free to distribute this Vocational Material for anyone interested.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-49920 Sister Julie Tue, 01 Dec 2009 13:31:36 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-49920 Hi Sister X, There are three congegregations of Sisters, Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary. My community of IHM Sisters is based in Monroe, Michigan, and the other two communities are in Pennsylvania -- Scranton and Immaculata. Although our communities are based in these locations, we minister throughout the U.S. and the world. In my community, we have IHM Sisters in Berekely (not far from you!) and Orange County. If you'd like to connect with one of our sisters, please send me an <a href="mailto:sister@anunslife.org" rel="nofollow">email</a> and tell me a bit about yourself! Hi Sister X, There are three congegregations of Sisters, Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary. My community of IHM Sisters is based in Monroe, Michigan, and the other two communities are in Pennsylvania — Scranton and Immaculata. Although our communities are based in these locations, we minister throughout the U.S. and the world. In my community, we have IHM Sisters in Berekely (not far from you!) and Orange County. If you’d like to connect with one of our sisters, please send me an email and tell me a bit about yourself!

]]> By: Sister X http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-49720 Sister X Sun, 29 Nov 2009 04:34:13 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-49720 Dear Sister Julie, First of all thank you for such a wonderful site. I am amazed at how much information can be found here! My gratitude. I have a question: Can you please tell me if there is an order of the Sisters/Servants of the Immaculate Heart in Northern California? I know there is a community in Los Angeles, but I live in the San Francisco Bay Area. Any information/insight is greatly appreciated! Dear Sister Julie,
First of all thank you for such a wonderful site. I am amazed at how much information can be found here! My gratitude.

I have a question: Can you please tell me if there is an order of the Sisters/Servants of the Immaculate Heart in Northern California? I know there is a community in Los Angeles, but I live in the San Francisco Bay Area.

Any information/insight is greatly appreciated!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-49346 Sister Julie Tue, 24 Nov 2009 11:31:20 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-49346 Hi Amira, Thank you for writing. It is wonderful that you desire to become a nun. I highly encourage you to stay in school and finish your degree while you are beginning to look into becoming a nun. As you can see from this page, it takes time to discern your call from God and to begin the steps necessary to become a nun. It is so helpful to the community and to your future ministry that you have an education. So as you pursue your dream of becoming a nun, remain faithful also to the calling you have right now to equip yourself with the skills and knowledge that will help you however God is calling you. Spend some time with the suggestions listed here and prayerfully go about learning about religious life and listening to God's call to you. My prayers are with you, Amira. Hi Amira, Thank you for writing. It is wonderful that you desire to become a nun. I highly encourage you to stay in school and finish your degree while you are beginning to look into becoming a nun. As you can see from this page, it takes time to discern your call from God and to begin the steps necessary to become a nun. It is so helpful to the community and to your future ministry that you have an education. So as you pursue your dream of becoming a nun, remain faithful also to the calling you have right now to equip yourself with the skills and knowledge that will help you however God is calling you. Spend some time with the suggestions listed here and prayerfully go about learning about religious life and listening to God’s call to you. My prayers are with you, Amira.

]]> By: amira http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-49326 amira Tue, 24 Nov 2009 05:56:24 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-49326 hi sister julie... i am 19 years old and a third year student taking up bachelor of elementary education. And now i decided to stop my studies and to become a nun. I hope that God will guide me, because becoming a nun was my dream since i was a child... hi sister julie…

i am 19 years old and a third year student taking up bachelor of elementary education. And now i decided to stop my studies and to become a nun. I hope that God will guide me, because becoming a nun was my dream since i was a child…

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-48455 Sister Julie Mon, 09 Nov 2009 13:39:52 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-48455 Hi WP, Thanks for writing and telling me a bit about your story. I hear a call in your words to something deeper, a more intentional way of life. There are a few questions I have for you to think on ... Are you drawn to living your call within a spiritual community or more on your own but still connected? What attracts you to that way? What things (people, lifestyles, books, ideas, events, etc.) have been "ah-ha!" moments in your life? moments in which you clearly felt a connection to who you are truly, to the universe, to the Spirit? And finally, the age-old question, what do you desire? I know these are not easy questions, but I sense that you are up for tackling them. Enter the questions with an open heart, an openness to being surprised. Then, if you want, shoot me an email and let me know your gleanings from the experience of reflecting on those questions. That will better help me to respond to your very good question re: recommendations for you. Blessings to you, WP. Hi WP, Thanks for writing and telling me a bit about your story. I hear a call in your words to something deeper, a more intentional way of life. There are a few questions I have for you to think on … Are you drawn to living your call within a spiritual community or more on your own but still connected? What attracts you to that way? What things (people, lifestyles, books, ideas, events, etc.) have been “ah-ha!” moments in your life? moments in which you clearly felt a connection to who you are truly, to the universe, to the Spirit? And finally, the age-old question, what do you desire? I know these are not easy questions, but I sense that you are up for tackling them. Enter the questions with an open heart, an openness to being surprised. Then, if you want, shoot me an email and let me know your gleanings from the experience of reflecting on those questions. That will better help me to respond to your very good question re: recommendations for you. Blessings to you, WP.

]]> By: WP http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-48439 WP Mon, 09 Nov 2009 06:41:50 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-48439 Hi Sister: If this website had been around in the mid-late 90s, my life may have turned out very different. ; ) When I was in college at that time, I almost became a nun... that is to say, I felt very strongly about it and asked for some information at church. I didn't actually know any nuns in our college town; I'm not sure that there was a convent or somesuch nearby. But the universe had other plans for me, as random things kept getting thrown in the way whenever I tried to walk down that path. I was Very Very Catholic at the time but now I am not; there are still some things I respect about it and am drawn to but other things just make me go "RAWR!" (not the doctrine really just some of things that are done by the guys who run the joint, as it were, but I digress). Anyway, I write because two of the three main reasons I had for wanting to become a nun (the third being very devout Catholicism and all that entails) are still around: not liking/wanting to participate in our materialistic culture, and being completely asexual (as in, chastity is my nature). Do you have any recommendations for spiritually ecclectic but nonsecular people at all? I thought it was worth an ask. : ) Thanks very much! Hi Sister:

If this website had been around in the mid-late 90s, my life may have turned out very different. ; )

When I was in college at that time, I almost became a nun… that is to say, I felt very strongly about it and asked for some information at church. I didn’t actually know any nuns in our college town; I’m not sure that there was a convent or somesuch nearby. But the universe had other plans for me, as random things kept getting thrown in the way whenever I tried to walk down that path.

I was Very Very Catholic at the time but now I am not; there are still some things I respect about it and am drawn to but other things just make me go “RAWR!” (not the doctrine really just some of things that are done by the guys who run the joint, as it were, but I digress). Anyway, I write because two of the three main reasons I had for wanting to become a nun (the third being very devout Catholicism and all that entails) are still around: not liking/wanting to participate in our materialistic culture, and being completely asexual (as in, chastity is my nature). Do you have any recommendations for spiritually ecclectic but nonsecular people at all? I thought it was worth an ask. : )

Thanks very much!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-48207 Sister Julie Fri, 06 Nov 2009 13:50:03 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-48207 Carly, Many thanks for writing and sharing a bit of your story with us. It is a delight to ahve you as part of our A Nun's Life community. Carly, Many thanks for writing and sharing a bit of your story with us. It is a delight to ahve you as part of our A Nun’s Life community.

]]> By: Carly Rebecca Maziejka http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-47700 Carly Rebecca Maziejka Sat, 31 Oct 2009 14:39:11 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-47700 Good Morning Sister, I have few words that can really tell you how I feel but your site is very helpful and motivational. I believe God has guided me here and your words give me hope of something I have not felt before, "True Purpose". I have been adrift for most of my life searching for a purpose, a reason why I am here but I had been unsuccessful. Several years ago I was awakened to my true self and since then I have had many awakenings to my personal self but still nothing to my purpose. I have always felt that my awakening was a gift from God and I have always treated it as such and no matter what difficulties I encounter as a result of it... it is still a gift from Him to me. God has never left my side though I left his for a very short spell, the sense of loss buried me, I now know what it like to be truly alone, but I regained Him with a lot of work and insight on my part and now that will never happen again. But I too am older, 52 to be exact yet I feel God has given me another gift, to become a nun. I am very glad to have come across your site with a little guidance from above, so I keep coming back to it again and again to learn and explore the ways and hows of becoming a nun. I look forward to discovering many things beginning with your site and I hope to discover much, much more and if I can become a nun or be able to perform some other service for Him, I will be happy as it is a true gift from God. I just wanted to say "Thank You!" for your work and Spirit on these pages and how helpful it is. God Bless You with many Joys! Be Well, Be Happy, Be Your Best Self! Good Morning Sister,
I have few words that can really tell you how I feel but your site is very helpful and motivational. I believe God has guided me here and your words give me hope of something I have not felt before, “True Purpose”.
I have been adrift for most of my life searching for a purpose, a reason why I am here but I had been unsuccessful. Several years ago I was awakened to my true self and since then I have had many awakenings to my personal self but still nothing to my purpose. I have always felt that my awakening was a gift from God and I have always treated it as such and no matter what difficulties I encounter as a result of it… it is still a gift from Him to me.
God has never left my side though I left his for a very short spell, the sense of loss buried me, I now know what it like to be truly alone, but I regained Him with a lot of work and insight on my part and now that will never happen again.
But I too am older, 52 to be exact yet I feel God has given me another gift, to become a nun. I am very glad to have come across your site with a little guidance from above, so I keep coming back to it again and again to learn and explore the ways and hows of becoming a nun. I look forward to discovering many things beginning with your site and I hope to discover much, much more and if I can become a nun or be able to perform some other service for Him, I will be happy as it is a true gift from God.
I just wanted to say “Thank You!” for your work and Spirit on these pages and how helpful it is.
God Bless You with many Joys! Be Well, Be Happy, Be Your Best Self!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-46670 Sister Julie Mon, 19 Oct 2009 15:35:38 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-46670 Hi Alyson, I'll do you one better. I'll make a PDF of the info and email it to you. Just ask that you keep the link and copyright for aNunsLife.org. Will email soon. We're honored that you can use this to help others. Blessings. Hi Alyson, I’ll do you one better. I’ll make a PDF of the info and email it to you. Just ask that you keep the link and copyright for aNunsLife.org. Will email soon. We’re honored that you can use this to help others. Blessings.

]]> By: Alyson http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-46462 Alyson Thu, 15 Oct 2009 19:50:48 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-46462 I was wondering if it would be okay to copy and print out your page to give out to customers. We run a catholic store and often have girls or parents who have questions on how to become a nun or where to start. This is a wonderful reference and I would love to be able to have this to hand out to those that are hopeful to become a nun. I was wondering if it would be okay to copy and print out your page to give out to customers. We run a catholic store and often have girls or parents who have questions on how to become a nun or where to start. This is a wonderful reference and I would love to be able to have this to hand out to those that are hopeful to become a nun.

]]> By: UH http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-46162 UH Mon, 12 Oct 2009 08:16:54 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-46162 This is a great page! I just found it, PRAYER is key! The best way to get to know your spouse and the foundation of all your apostolic work. I'm entering the Dominican Sisters of Mary, Mother of the Eucharist (DSMME) next year. They are a solid order. They pray the Liturgy of the Hours and have a monastic life, since they follow the Dominican tradition (sistersofmary.org). Amy, I do know of a young lady who entered a more charismatic order in Florida, but I have to look up the name. She is a beautiful young lady. I met her on a retreat with the DSMME. I'm praying for all of you! This is a great page! I just found it, PRAYER is key! The best way to get to know your spouse and the foundation of all your apostolic work. I’m entering the Dominican Sisters of Mary, Mother of the Eucharist (DSMME) next year. They are a solid order. They pray the Liturgy of the Hours and have a monastic life, since they follow the Dominican tradition (sistersofmary.org). Amy, I do know of a young lady who entered a more charismatic order in Florida, but I have to look up the name. She is a beautiful young lady. I met her on a retreat with the DSMME. I’m praying for all of you!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-45496 Sister Julie Thu, 01 Oct 2009 13:32:13 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-45496 Hi Jan ... Check out this post I wrote ... <a href="http://anunslife.org/2007/05/17/praying-the-liturgy-of-the-hours/" rel="nofollow">Praying the Liturgy of the Hours</a>. Love this form of prayer. As a ministerial religious sister, I do not live a monastic life but still try to and try to incorporate at least morning prayer in my day. Hi Jan … Check out this post I wrote … Praying the Liturgy of the Hours. Love this form of prayer. As a ministerial religious sister, I do not live a monastic life but still try to and try to incorporate at least morning prayer in my day.

]]> By: Jan LLoyd http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-45181 Jan LLoyd Sun, 27 Sep 2009 20:11:41 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-45181 Good day, I was trying to find out what the names are of the times of prayer for sisters. It was at least once upon a time accompanied by a number of bells. Matins I believe is the name of one of them. If you could ever do an article about what they are called or email me with that info I would be ever so apprciative. I just found this web site today and have found it immensely fresh and enjoyable. Its so nice to find something on the internet that reminds one of the higher nature and purpose in life. The video of the young nun taking her vows was so moving and sweet. Thank you for such a bright moment! Sincerely Jan Marie Lloyd Good day,
I was trying to find out what the names are of the times of prayer for sisters. It was at least once upon a time accompanied by a number of bells. Matins I believe is the name of one of them. If you could ever do an article about what they are called or email me with that info I would be ever so apprciative. I just found this web site today and have found it immensely fresh and enjoyable. Its so
nice to find something on the internet that reminds one of the higher
nature and purpose in life. The video of the young nun taking her vows was so moving and sweet.

Thank you for such a bright moment!
Sincerely
Jan Marie Lloyd

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-44166 Sister Julie Sun, 13 Sep 2009 19:52:08 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-44166 Hi Karen, Thanks for your question. The second part is easier! Yes, men have the same limits. As to the first question, it's not a simple answer and I'm not really sure of all the reasons. But from what I've gathered, the age cutoff is for a number of reasons. The ones I regularly hear are 1) a person entering has to have the energy to take on fully the mission and ministry of the religious community, and 2) a person has to be open to being "formed" in religious life. Again, these are some of the reasons I've heard and I'm not saying they are valid or invalid ones. Religious life is a life commitment and generally oriented to those who have "their whole lives ahead of them". I'm not sure what that means now in today's society (at least in mainstream U.S.) adolescence is prolonged and life commitments are made much later in life than even a generation or two ago. I know that many religious communities do consider those over 40 or 50 on a case-by-case basis as there are always exceptions to the rule. Hi Karen, Thanks for your question. The second part is easier! Yes, men have the same limits. As to the first question, it’s not a simple answer and I’m not really sure of all the reasons. But from what I’ve gathered, the age cutoff is for a number of reasons. The ones I regularly hear are 1) a person entering has to have the energy to take on fully the mission and ministry of the religious community, and 2) a person has to be open to being “formed” in religious life. Again, these are some of the reasons I’ve heard and I’m not saying they are valid or invalid ones. Religious life is a life commitment and generally oriented to those who have “their whole lives ahead of them”. I’m not sure what that means now in today’s society (at least in mainstream U.S.) adolescence is prolonged and life commitments are made much later in life than even a generation or two ago. I know that many religious communities do consider those over 40 or 50 on a case-by-case basis as there are always exceptions to the rule.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-43824 Sister Julie Wed, 09 Sep 2009 13:03:02 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-43824 Dear Cindy, Thank you for writing. Your words are filled with a sense of calling and of service. 52 is on the later side of the age range for becoming a nun but I don't think it's out of the question. However, keep in mind that the process of becoming a nun takes about 7 years. Still, there are a number of communities who would be happy to get to know you. There's some more info here on this post: <a href="http://anunslife.org/2007/08/15/becoming-a-nun-after-40ish/" rel="nofollow">Becoming a Nun after 40ish</a>. Also, you might want to consider becoming an Associate or Affiliate -- a lay woman (married/single) who shares in the mission and spirituality of the community but is not under vows. No matter what age you are, there are things you can do and ways to be of service. I encourage you to think about your gifts and talents and about what you would absolutely love to do. There are so many people in need and organizations that would love your help. Look for something that has a sense of community so that you are supported and encouraged in your work and in your life. Dear Cindy, Thank you for writing. Your words are filled with a sense of calling and of service. 52 is on the later side of the age range for becoming a nun but I don’t think it’s out of the question. However, keep in mind that the process of becoming a nun takes about 7 years. Still, there are a number of communities who would be happy to get to know you. There’s some more info here on this post: Becoming a Nun after 40ish.

Also, you might want to consider becoming an Associate or Affiliate — a lay woman (married/single) who shares in the mission and spirituality of the community but is not under vows.

No matter what age you are, there are things you can do and ways to be of service. I encourage you to think about your gifts and talents and about what you would absolutely love to do. There are so many people in need and organizations that would love your help. Look for something that has a sense of community so that you are supported and encouraged in your work and in your life.

]]> By: Cindy http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-43635 Cindy Mon, 07 Sep 2009 23:09:15 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-43635 Sister Julie, My 52nd birthday was Sept 2........even at this "advanced" age, I keep coming back to my childhood dream of becoming a nun. Single, and a registered nurse, I long for a more spiritual life spent serving God through direct patient care along with daily worship. Any guidance you can lend would be greatly appreciated! Cindy Sister Julie,
My 52nd birthday was Sept 2……..even at this “advanced” age, I keep coming back to my childhood dream of becoming a nun. Single, and a registered nurse, I long for a more spiritual life spent serving God through direct patient care along with daily worship.
Any guidance you can lend would be greatly appreciated!
Cindy

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-42917 Sister Julie Tue, 01 Sep 2009 11:28:44 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-42917 Hi Rebecca, You <em>can</em> have tattos and be a nun! Hi Rebecca, You can have tattos and be a nun!

]]> By: Rebecca http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-42855 Rebecca Mon, 31 Aug 2009 19:50:45 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-42855 Just out of curiosity, and though I think that I know the answer, I would still like to verify it. If you have tattoos, being a nun is out of the picture, right? Just out of curiosity, and though I think that I know the answer, I would still like to verify it. If you have tattoos, being a nun is out of the picture, right?

]]> By: Mylene http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-42823 Mylene Mon, 31 Aug 2009 14:52:33 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-42823 Dear Sr. Julie, How are you? I am very happy to read your writings. I used to visit and attend the activities of the Catholic Sister here in our province. I have started to join them after my college retreat which was held in their place. I can't really explain what I feel every time I was with them. The only thing I can say is that it's fullfilling. I remeber,When I was in grade school our teacher used to ask me what I want to be when I grow up. Then you know what? I directly said that I want to be a nun. My teacher laugh at me and said how did you know? your only 11 year old. I answered I just really want. Now, I am 21 year old. I already finished my college studies and currently working in the University where I was earned my degree. and the feeling that I have is still same when I was 11 year old. However, I am very busy with my job now which I also enjoy. Dear Sr. Julie,

How are you?

I am very happy to read your writings. I used to visit and attend the activities of the Catholic Sister here in our province. I have started to join them after my college retreat which was held in their place. I can’t really explain what I feel every time I was with them. The only thing I can say is that it’s fullfilling. I remeber,When I was in grade school our teacher used to ask me what I want to be when I grow up. Then you know what? I directly said that I want to be a nun. My teacher laugh at me and said how did you know? your only 11 year old. I answered I just really want.

Now, I am 21 year old. I already finished my college studies and currently working in the University where I was earned my degree. and the feeling that I have is still same when I was 11 year old. However, I am very busy with my job now which I also enjoy.

]]> By: Karen Reyes http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-42038 Karen Reyes Sun, 23 Aug 2009 19:34:59 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-42038 Sister Julie- Would you please explain the reasons for the 40-50 year old age limit to becoming a nun? Do men have the same limits? Thank you for all you do- Karen Sister Julie-

Would you please explain the reasons for the 40-50 year old age limit to becoming a nun? Do men have the same limits? Thank you for all you do-

Karen

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-42007 Sister Julie Sun, 23 Aug 2009 11:55:21 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-42007 Dear Anne Therese, Thank you for writing! I'm also glad that you found our blog. You ask a good question. Check out a discussion we had at <a href="http://anunslife.org/2007/08/27/discerning-religious-life-with-persons-who-have-a-managed-mental-illness/" rel="nofollow">Discerning Religious Life with Persons who have a Managed Mental Illness</a> and also the links contained in this post. There's no clear-cut answer to your question. "My general sense is that communities discern with candidates on a person-by-person basis. There is no absolute rule that says if you have x, y, or z illness you cannot become a religious. A lot has to do with how well the individual is living with it and to what extent the community has the ability/support systems/understanding to support the person. These considerations all takes place within the mode of discernment, of prayerfully and expectantly seeking God’s Word to oneself and also to the community." I encourage you to get to know a religious community that you are attracted to. Spend time with them and get to know one another outside of a vocation-discernment mode. You will get a sense of what they are like and how God's call to you "fits" with your experience of them. When you are ready, get in touch with the Vocation Director. I would at some point let her know about your diagnosis but it has to be when you are comfortable with sharing that. Some Vocation Directors may have no idea what that means so you will have to be prepared to explain what it is and what it's like to live with bipolar illness and how you manage it. As I'm sure you are aware, there are stigmas attached to persons with mental or emotional illnesses (physical illness for that matter), and those are issues you may have to wade into. Your diagnosis is something that would remain confidential and be made known only to the vocation team and leadership team as they would be part of the discerning group. Blessings to you, Anne Therese. I encourage you to pursue this and explore more how God is calling you. Please let me know how I can help. Dear Anne Therese, Thank you for writing! I’m also glad that you found our blog. You ask a good question. Check out a discussion we had at Discerning Religious Life with Persons who have a Managed Mental Illness and also the links contained in this post. There’s no clear-cut answer to your question. “My general sense is that communities discern with candidates on a person-by-person basis. There is no absolute rule that says if you have x, y, or z illness you cannot become a religious. A lot has to do with how well the individual is living with it and to what extent the community has the ability/support systems/understanding to support the person. These considerations all takes place within the mode of discernment, of prayerfully and expectantly seeking God’s Word to oneself and also to the community.”

I encourage you to get to know a religious community that you are attracted to. Spend time with them and get to know one another outside of a vocation-discernment mode. You will get a sense of what they are like and how God’s call to you “fits” with your experience of them. When you are ready, get in touch with the Vocation Director. I would at some point let her know about your diagnosis but it has to be when you are comfortable with sharing that. Some Vocation Directors may have no idea what that means so you will have to be prepared to explain what it is and what it’s like to live with bipolar illness and how you manage it. As I’m sure you are aware, there are stigmas attached to persons with mental or emotional illnesses (physical illness for that matter), and those are issues you may have to wade into. Your diagnosis is something that would remain confidential and be made known only to the vocation team and leadership team as they would be part of the discerning group.

Blessings to you, Anne Therese. I encourage you to pursue this and explore more how God is calling you. Please let me know how I can help.

]]> By: Anne Therese http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-41993 Anne Therese Sun, 23 Aug 2009 06:34:25 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-41993 Dear Sr. Julie, I'm so happy to have found your blog! My question has to do with mental illness. If a woman has shown success as a lay person in a career (I'm a librarian at a university), would my diagnosis of bipolar illness exclude me from consideration? Peace to you, Anne Therese Dear Sr. Julie,

I’m so happy to have found your blog!

My question has to do with mental illness. If a woman has shown success as a lay person in a career (I’m a librarian at a university), would my diagnosis of bipolar illness exclude me from consideration?

Peace to you,

Anne Therese

]]> By: TenTen http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-41551 TenTen Wed, 19 Aug 2009 12:51:02 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-41551 Marian Greetings! i love it..as a person undergoing a discernment process will help me a lot..everybody isa callde to be holy but only few are called to be religious.. rest assured of my prayers.. Ave Maria.. -ten Marian Greetings!

i love it..as a person undergoing a discernment process will help me a lot..everybody isa callde to be holy but only few are called to be religious..

rest assured of my prayers..

Ave Maria..

-ten

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-40989 Sister Julie Fri, 14 Aug 2009 20:50:05 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-40989 Dear Katie, Thank you for writing to me and telling me a bit about your life. The usual age range for becoming a sister is 18-40 and some communities go up to the early 50s or so. In addition, you do have to be a practicing Catholic and you cannot have any dependents. Honestly I'm not sure that becoming a Catholic nun would be possible. But it's not impossible to become associated with a religious community and/or to develop some spiritual practices that are more contemplative and help you be more in tune with God and with others. I encourage you to think about renewing your faith and learning more about God and prayer. Also if you are attracted to the life and spirituality of a particular religious community, see if they have lay associates or affiliates or other ways that you can be part of the wider community with them. Blessings, Katie. Dear Katie, Thank you for writing to me and telling me a bit about your life. The usual age range for becoming a sister is 18-40 and some communities go up to the early 50s or so. In addition, you do have to be a practicing Catholic and you cannot have any dependents. Honestly I’m not sure that becoming a Catholic nun would be possible. But it’s not impossible to become associated with a religious community and/or to develop some spiritual practices that are more contemplative and help you be more in tune with God and with others. I encourage you to think about renewing your faith and learning more about God and prayer. Also if you are attracted to the life and spirituality of a particular religious community, see if they have lay associates or affiliates or other ways that you can be part of the wider community with them. Blessings, Katie.

]]> By: Katie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-40832 Katie Thu, 13 Aug 2009 20:26:45 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-40832 P.S I was baptised Catholic as a baby, but am not a practing Catholic. I would do all which is required to do this. Also, I was married in a church but not a Catholic church , would any of the above mentioned make it imposable to pursue becoming a nun? P.S

I was baptised Catholic as a baby, but am not a practing Catholic. I would do all which is required to do this. Also, I was married in a church but not a Catholic church , would any of the above mentioned make it imposable to pursue becoming a nun?

]]> By: Katie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-40814 Katie Thu, 13 Aug 2009 20:16:20 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-40814 Dear Sister Julie, I am 42 years old and know that God has a calling for me. I've lived a sinful life that I was a slave to, to the extent of being spiritually tormented for the last 3 1/2 years. Actually it has been there my whole life, but about 3 1/2 years ago I started being able to see beyound the vail. I was at first very affraid, but since then have repented of my sins and have given up my will and know the the Holy Spirit is with me and will comfort and bring me peace in any path which he leads me. I am married and my husband is 54 years old. If he passes before I do, my true desire is to become a nun, do you think this maybe posible? By reading your website I am not sure. Can you give me your feed back and any other suggestions that you have. God Bless, Katie Dear Sister Julie,

I am 42 years old and know that God has a calling for me. I’ve lived a sinful life that I was a slave to, to the extent of being spiritually tormented for the last 3 1/2 years. Actually it has been there my whole life, but about 3 1/2 years ago I started being able to see beyound the vail. I was at first very affraid, but since then have repented of my sins and have given up my will and know the the Holy Spirit is with me and will comfort and bring me peace in any path which he leads me.

I am married and my husband is 54 years old. If he passes before I do, my true desire is to become a nun, do you think this maybe posible? By reading your website I am not sure. Can you give me your feed back and any other suggestions that you have.

God Bless,

Katie

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-40457 Sister Julie Mon, 10 Aug 2009 14:47:33 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-40457 Hi Karli, Thanks for writing. You are not too young to think about religious life and discern, but probably a bit too young to begin formal entrance! Even though you can't begin the process of becoming a nun, you can prepare yourself with prayer, getting to know nuns, and discerning how God is calling you in your life now. I encourage you to spend time with #1-3 above. It's also important to explore what your gifts and talents are and how you can develop them in service to God and God's people. This will be great preparation as you consider becoming a nun and ministering as a nun. Blessings, Karli! Hi Karli, Thanks for writing. You are not too young to think about religious life and discern, but probably a bit too young to begin formal entrance! Even though you can’t begin the process of becoming a nun, you can prepare yourself with prayer, getting to know nuns, and discerning how God is calling you in your life now. I encourage you to spend time with #1-3 above. It’s also important to explore what your gifts and talents are and how you can develop them in service to God and God’s people. This will be great preparation as you consider becoming a nun and ministering as a nun. Blessings, Karli!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-40454 Sister Julie Mon, 10 Aug 2009 14:35:28 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-40454 Hi Lamt, I encourage you to check out the post <a href="http://anunslife.org/2007/08/15/becoming-a-nun-after-40ish/" rel="nofollow">Becoming a Nun after 40ish</a>. There are some communities mentioned there that will work with women over 40 and into their 50s. You might start with the men's <a href="http://transfiguration.chartreux.org/index.htm" rel="nofollow">Carthusian Monastery of the Transfiguration in Vermont</a>. Their website says, "We permit only vocational retreats, i.e., for those who believe they are called or who are discerning a possible call to the Carthusian life, and only after some preliminary requirements (a questionnaire, two letters of reference, further questions) are satisfied." I'm not sure if this means just men but it's worth inquiring. You might also check out other enclosed religious communities and see if their life and mission attract you -- e.g. Carmelite, Camaldolese, Dominican nuns. Blessings on your discernment, Lamt. Hi Lamt, I encourage you to check out the post Becoming a Nun after 40ish. There are some communities mentioned there that will work with women over 40 and into their 50s. You might start with the men’s Carthusian Monastery of the Transfiguration in Vermont. Their website says, “We permit only vocational retreats, i.e., for those who believe they are called or who are discerning a possible call to the Carthusian life, and only after some preliminary requirements (a questionnaire, two letters of reference, further questions) are satisfied.” I’m not sure if this means just men but it’s worth inquiring. You might also check out other enclosed religious communities and see if their life and mission attract you — e.g. Carmelite, Camaldolese, Dominican nuns. Blessings on your discernment, Lamt.

]]> By: Jen http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-40119 Jen Thu, 06 Aug 2009 17:44:13 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-40119 Bless you for this wonderful article! Though I am not Catholic myself, a dear and close friend of mine and she is very much wanting to become a Sister. Her family is mixed on supporting the idea so having unbiased information helps to point her in the right direction. Mazel tov, Sister Julie! Bless you for this wonderful article! Though I am not Catholic myself, a dear and close friend of mine and she is very much wanting to become a Sister. Her family is mixed on supporting the idea so having unbiased information helps to point her in the right direction.

Mazel tov, Sister Julie!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-39548 Sister Julie Fri, 31 Jul 2009 14:54:28 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-39548 Dear Tisha, Thank you for writing. It is difficult to recommend which way to go, especially because there are most religious communities have both dimensions of active and contemplative though to varying degrees and with various expressions. Even the most active communities honor the contemplative life -- it's what sustains us in our ministry. And contemplative communities often have some form of ministry that they engage in above and beyond their life and ministry of prayer. Contemplative praying is something that any kind of nun and any person for that matter can learn and grow in. In fact I'll write about contemplative prayer in today's post -- what it is and resources to help guide you. Back to your question ... I recommend that you spend time thinking about what you want to do and be in life -- not specifically about being a nun. Do you want to work with people? live in community? work in the church, work with the poor and vulnerable? travel? learn a new language and culture? stay put in one place? What gifts and talents do you have that you'd like to develop? What attracts you and gives you energy? Think and pray through these questions remembering that God is using all these things to attract you and grow in relationship with you. Also, I encourage you to get to know sisters. Religious Life is not a solitary life. It's not simply about one's personal pursuit of God -- it's about living together for God. So who the sisters are in a community is an important piece of information when deciding what community to look into. Blessings on your discernment, Tisha. Dear Tisha, Thank you for writing. It is difficult to recommend which way to go, especially because there are most religious communities have both dimensions of active and contemplative though to varying degrees and with various expressions. Even the most active communities honor the contemplative life — it’s what sustains us in our ministry. And contemplative communities often have some form of ministry that they engage in above and beyond their life and ministry of prayer. Contemplative praying is something that any kind of nun and any person for that matter can learn and grow in. In fact I’ll write about contemplative prayer in today’s post — what it is and resources to help guide you.

Back to your question … I recommend that you spend time thinking about what you want to do and be in life — not specifically about being a nun. Do you want to work with people? live in community? work in the church, work with the poor and vulnerable? travel? learn a new language and culture? stay put in one place? What gifts and talents do you have that you’d like to develop? What attracts you and gives you energy? Think and pray through these questions remembering that God is using all these things to attract you and grow in relationship with you.

Also, I encourage you to get to know sisters. Religious Life is not a solitary life. It’s not simply about one’s personal pursuit of God — it’s about living together for God. So who the sisters are in a community is an important piece of information when deciding what community to look into.

Blessings on your discernment, Tisha.

]]> By: tisha http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-39493 tisha Thu, 30 Jul 2009 23:15:02 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-39493 sister, i was grateful that i was able to get a chance to read your blogs. i have already accepted the call of God, but one very important question is left unanswered, and that is in where should i let myself be called, in active life or in contemplative.. right now my heart is more on the contemplative side..... i really want to be a monk, but my mentors told me to try first the active life for me to make us of my charisma first before seriously taking in the life of deep prayer. pls. help me sister... sister,
i was grateful that i was able to get a chance to read your blogs.
i have already accepted the call of God, but one very important question is left unanswered, and that is in where should i let myself be called, in active life or in contemplative.. right now my heart is more on the contemplative side….. i really want to be a monk, but my mentors told me to try first the active life for me to make us of my charisma first before seriously taking in the life of deep prayer. pls. help me sister…

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-39201 Sister Julie Mon, 27 Jul 2009 11:53:16 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-39201 Dear Rebecca, I am delighted that you found this blog. The folks who write and visit here are wonderful -- supportive and insightful. My prayers are with you. Be sure to check out the Vocation Forum here at <a href="http://anunslife.org/vocationforum/" rel="nofollow">A Nun's Life</a>. Blessings on your exploration of how God is calling you. Let me know if I can support you in any way. Dear Rebecca, I am delighted that you found this blog. The folks who write and visit here are wonderful — supportive and insightful. My prayers are with you. Be sure to check out the Vocation Forum here at A Nun’s Life. Blessings on your exploration of how God is calling you. Let me know if I can support you in any way.

]]> By: Rebecca http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-39056 Rebecca Sun, 26 Jul 2009 00:19:12 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-39056 Sister Julie, Thank you so much for creating this blog. I have been praying about this calling I have felt tugging at my heart since I was 16. I am 18 now and I know that is still young, but I honestly believe that the sisterhood is where I belong. I am very confused, excited, and extremely nervous about what all of this means. I just googled "nun" and this came up and it could not have been any better! Thank you so much for this guidance! I do wish to find some answers the more I explore with what you have suggested. I would just like to thank you again so much for leading me in the right direction! God Bless, Rebecca Sister Julie,
Thank you so much for creating this blog. I have been praying about this calling I have felt tugging at my heart since I was 16. I am 18 now and I know that is still young, but I honestly believe that the sisterhood is where I belong. I am very confused, excited, and extremely nervous about what all of this means. I just googled “nun” and this came up and it could not have been any better! Thank you so much for this guidance! I do wish to find some answers the more I explore with what you have suggested. I would just like to thank you again so much for leading me in the right direction!
God Bless,
Rebecca

]]> By: karli http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-38440 karli Sun, 19 Jul 2009 21:32:18 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-38440 Hi, my name is Karli Koning. I am 13 (14 in september) and I have the strongest drawing to becoming a nun. It started when I saw a program about Mother Teresa about 2 months ago and how she was a nun who became a saint. I am praying for guidence and have talked to my parents about it and they say i'm too young although Teresa was very young when she started nunhood. I was wondering if I AM too young and how I can get started? Also i am strongly Catholic. Hi, my name is Karli Koning. I am 13 (14 in september) and I have the strongest drawing to becoming a nun. It started when I saw a program about Mother Teresa about 2 months ago and how she was a nun who became a saint. I am praying for guidence and have talked to my parents about it and they say i’m too young although Teresa was very young when she started nunhood. I was wondering if I AM too young and how I can get started? Also i am strongly Catholic.

]]> By: lamt http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-38376 lamt Sun, 19 Jul 2009 03:36:25 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-38376 Sister, I have been thinking about becoming a nun and find that the cloistered orders appeal to me, especially the Carthusians. I'm unmarried, but older (early 50s) and wonder that they'd even consider me. Since there are no monasteries here in the USA, how could I possibly visit them even if they were interested in me? Sister,
I have been thinking about becoming a nun and find that the cloistered orders appeal to me, especially the Carthusians. I’m unmarried, but older (early 50s) and wonder that they’d even consider me. Since there are no monasteries here in the USA, how could I possibly visit them even if they were interested in me?

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-35495 Sister Julie Wed, 01 Jul 2009 11:39:35 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-35495 Hi Hema, Try the following ... Fr. Manikya Raju from the Archdiocese of Delhi email: smanikya (AT) yahoo (DOT) co (DOT) uk -- replace the stuff in parentheses with the appropriate symbols. Sacred Heart Cathedral 1, Ashok Place, New Delhi – 110 001 Telephone: 23363593 Hi Hema, Try the following …

Fr. Manikya Raju from the Archdiocese of Delhi
email: smanikya (AT) yahoo (DOT) co (DOT) uk — replace the stuff in parentheses with the appropriate symbols.

Sacred Heart Cathedral
1, Ashok Place, New Delhi – 110 001
Telephone: 23363593

]]> By: hema sharma http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-35487 hema sharma Wed, 01 Jul 2009 10:37:23 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-35487 sister or nun julie i want to say thank you that u give me some ideas to how can i become a nun but the website u give these are not usefull for me because there are some error so they can't open.can help me about this matter i really need your help about to need some contact person & phone no who can help to made me nun. Sister please help me . hema sharma from delhi. sister or nun julie i want to say thank you that u give me some ideas to how can i become a nun but the website u give these are not usefull for me because there are some error so they can’t open.can help me about this matter i really need your help about to need some contact person & phone no who can help to made me nun. Sister please help me . hema sharma from delhi.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-35118 Sister Julie Mon, 29 Jun 2009 11:32:58 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-35118 Hi Rosemary, Nice to meet you! Yes, do poke me when you get your Facebook page up and running. You can "fan" the <a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/pages/A-Nuns-Life/61833907856" rel="nofollow">A Nun's Life FB page</a> and "<a href="http://www.facebook.com/sisterjulie" rel="nofollow">friend" me</a>. :) Hi Rosemary, Nice to meet you! Yes, do poke me when you get your Facebook page up and running. You can “fan” the A Nun’s Life FB page and “friend” me. :)

]]> By: Rosemary http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-35019 Rosemary Sun, 28 Jun 2009 18:36:16 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-35019 Sister Julie, I am so grateful for your words of wisdom. Becoming a nun has always been a dream of mine since I was very small (about 3-4 :p)! Your advice has given me hope that one day I will fulfill my dream. I had my close personal friend (who just so happens to be a nun, Sister Ethel) find you on facebook and she says you live in Chicago just like me :D what a cowinky-dink! After reading your suggestions, I would like to ask you to a movie sometime;). I have been making a facebook page and maybe I will poke you once I have finished. Possibly you could give me more information on following my calling. Hope to hear from you soon, many thanks! x Sister Julie,

I am so grateful for your words of wisdom. Becoming a nun has always been a dream of mine since I was very small (about 3-4 :p)! Your advice has given me hope that one day I will fulfill my dream.
I had my close personal friend (who just so happens to be a nun, Sister Ethel) find you on facebook and she says you live in Chicago just like me :D what a cowinky-dink! After reading your suggestions, I would like to ask you to a movie sometime;).
I have been making a facebook page and maybe I will poke you once I have finished. Possibly you could give me more information on following my calling. Hope to hear from you soon, many thanks! x

]]> By: Tara http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-34866 Tara Sat, 27 Jun 2009 16:38:35 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-34866 Sister Julie, What a blessing this article is. I have been struggling to discern whether I am called to the married or religious life. Though the frustration is still there, I am trusting that I will hear Gods call when He thinks I am ready. I am fortunate to go to a Catholic college that is very close (both in friendship and distance) to several religious orders. Visiting these orders is something I would like to intentionally pursue when I return in the fall. In the meantime, I am just praying that my eye's be open to His will and that I can let go of anything holding me back from embracing His call. It is websites like this that witness to His name. Thank-you. Bless you sister. I will keep you in mind. Sister Julie,

What a blessing this article is. I have been struggling to discern whether I am called to the married or religious life. Though the frustration is still there, I am trusting that I will hear Gods call when He thinks I am ready.
I am fortunate to go to a Catholic college that is very close (both in friendship and distance) to several religious orders. Visiting these orders is something I would like to intentionally pursue when I return in the fall. In the meantime, I am just praying that my eye’s be open to His will and that I can let go of anything holding me back from embracing His call. It is websites like this that witness to His name. Thank-you.

Bless you sister. I will keep you in mind.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-34424 Sister Julie Thu, 25 Jun 2009 12:07:55 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-34424 Hi Hema, Thanks for your messages. I've sent several emails to you directly with information that will help you including phone numbers of persons you can contact. If you did not receive those emails, please let me know or send me one that works. Many thanks. Hi Hema, Thanks for your messages. I’ve sent several emails to you directly with information that will help you including phone numbers of persons you can contact. If you did not receive those emails, please let me know or send me one that works. Many thanks.

]]> By: hema sharma http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-34417 hema sharma Thu, 25 Jun 2009 10:48:02 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-34417 sister or nun julie you don't give me any person name or phone no to whom i can consult about that how can i make a nun . I need your help about this matter can you please give me your personal side where i can contact to you.I had search your all side but there is no responce and i can't find it. sister or nun julie you don’t give me any person name or phone no to whom i can consult about that how can i make a nun . I need your help about this matter can you please give me your personal side where i can contact to you.I had search your all side but there is no responce and i can’t find it.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-33873 Sister Julie Mon, 22 Jun 2009 17:21:54 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-33873 Dear Jennifer, What a lovely note! Thank you for writing and for sharing a bit of your journey with us. My prayers are with you as you continue to grow into the beautiful woman that you are! Dear Jennifer, What a lovely note! Thank you for writing and for sharing a bit of your journey with us. My prayers are with you as you continue to grow into the beautiful woman that you are!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-33864 Sister Julie Mon, 22 Jun 2009 16:49:51 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-33864 Hi Sara, This page is a good place to start if you are interested in becoming a Catholic Christian nun -- it's also helpful for other kinds of nuns, but more specific to the Catholic way. Are you interested in becoming a Christian or would you like to see if becoming a nun is possible in your religious tradition? Hi Sara, This page is a good place to start if you are interested in becoming a Catholic Christian nun — it’s also helpful for other kinds of nuns, but more specific to the Catholic way. Are you interested in becoming a Christian or would you like to see if becoming a nun is possible in your religious tradition?

]]> By: Sara http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-33255 Sara Wed, 17 Jun 2009 08:42:23 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-33255 I want to be a nun. I am never married and 34 years old. By birth, I am not a Christian and need some guidance/steps to put my foot to serve god. I am from Asia. I want to be a nun. I am never married and 34 years old. By birth, I am not a Christian and need some guidance/steps to put my foot to serve god. I am from Asia.

]]> By: jennifer http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-32584 jennifer Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:22:44 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-32584 Dear Sister Julie, I wish I could adequately describe what a blessing this website and your words have been to me. I was raised in a secular family, but I felt such a strong, beautiful love for and from Jesus as a little girl. I sought to be more connected to faith, I joined a youth group and jumped at every chance to go to church with my friends. As I grew into a young woman I did a lot of determining. I really tried to make sense of suffering and injustice. I think I tried to rationalize life in this world and in doing so I rationalized my faith, thinking my inspirations, compassion and call for God were just one of the best parts of everyone's human nature. (Although, lately, it's occured to me, maybe I have had a calling since I was a child, I remember how all of the adults used to be tickled pink when I said I wanted to be hermit when I grew up:) What a sweet relief it is to read the words of the Sisters on this site, aaah I can finally feel normal in my nuttiness! I realized the process isn't at all as I worried it would be and now I feel free to pursue my persistent dream. I've been attending Mass where I live, your website gave me the courage to broach the subject of my conversion. Thank you a million times over. I will always keep you in my prayers. Dear Sister Julie,
I wish I could adequately describe what a blessing this website and your words have been to me. I was raised in a secular family, but I felt such a strong, beautiful love for and from Jesus as a little girl. I sought to be more connected to faith, I joined a youth group and jumped at every chance to go to church with my friends. As I grew into a young woman I did a lot of determining. I really tried to make sense of suffering and injustice. I think I tried to rationalize life in this world and in doing so I rationalized my faith, thinking my inspirations, compassion and call for God were just one of the best parts of everyone’s human nature. (Although, lately, it’s occured to me, maybe I have had a calling since I was a child, I remember how all of the adults used to be tickled pink when I said I wanted to be hermit when I grew up:) What a sweet relief it is to read the words of the Sisters on this site, aaah I can finally feel normal in my nuttiness! I realized the process isn’t at all as I worried it would be and now I feel free to pursue my persistent dream. I’ve been attending Mass where I live, your website gave me the courage to broach the subject of my conversion. Thank you a million times over. I will always keep you in my prayers.

]]> By: loretta http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-32162 loretta Sat, 06 Jun 2009 09:33:32 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-32162 thank you so much for having this website. it has answered a lot of questions for me. peace be with you thank you so much for having this website. it has answered a lot of questions for me. peace be with you

]]> By: Another Sister Julie, CSSF http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-31814 Another Sister Julie, CSSF Mon, 01 Jun 2009 02:31:10 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-31814 I almost joined these sisters! I had no clue that there were nuns outside the Catholic Church. I almost joined these sisters! I had no clue that there were nuns outside the Catholic Church.

]]> By: Slippyroad http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-31799 Slippyroad Sun, 31 May 2009 21:29:37 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-31799 Here is a protestant, non-Anglican Church, sisterhood. They are sometimes called "Lutheran nuns", but I don't know if they would call themselves that. http://www.kanaan.org/international/default.htm Here is a protestant, non-Anglican Church, sisterhood. They are sometimes called “Lutheran nuns”, but I don’t know if they would call themselves that.
http://www.kanaan.org/international/default.htm

]]> By: Slippyroad http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-31552 Slippyroad Wed, 27 May 2009 20:00:12 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-31552 I have just come across this page on the Conference of Anglican Religious Orders in the Americas site. http://www.caroa.net/members.php It may be helpful for Mel or others who are not Roman Catholic. I have just come across this page on the Conference of Anglican Religious Orders in the Americas site.
http://www.caroa.net/members.php
It may be helpful for Mel or others who are not Roman Catholic.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-30988 Sister Julie Wed, 20 May 2009 11:04:16 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-30988 Hi Luz, I think it's good to be exploring what it means to be a nun at any age because it can help you sort out how God is calling you at that moment. The general age range is usually 18-40 ... I began seriously considering religious life when I was 25 and entered when I was 27. I think it's good to have some educational and professional background and to know how to handle stuff like getting a job, keeping up car payments or bills, living on your own, etc. It ultimately has to do with God's call to you. Hi Luz, I think it’s good to be exploring what it means to be a nun at any age because it can help you sort out how God is calling you at that moment. The general age range is usually 18-40 … I began seriously considering religious life when I was 25 and entered when I was 27. I think it’s good to have some educational and professional background and to know how to handle stuff like getting a job, keeping up car payments or bills, living on your own, etc. It ultimately has to do with God’s call to you.

]]> By: LUZ http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-30817 LUZ Mon, 18 May 2009 18:42:23 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-30817 What age is good to be a Catholic Nun ? What age is good to be a Catholic Nun ?

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-29265 Sister Julie Thu, 30 Apr 2009 00:22:39 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-29265 Wow, Cindy, you've been through a lot. I pray that you are doing well now and that you still experience that closeness to God. What a gift! Wow, Cindy, you’ve been through a lot. I pray that you are doing well now and that you still experience that closeness to God. What a gift!

]]> By: Cindy http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-29245 Cindy Wed, 29 Apr 2009 17:03:53 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-29245 I forgot to add few details, I had a concusion, collasped lung, internal bleeding and had to spend 9 months in a body cast after I woke up. It was 1965. I forgot to add few details, I had a concusion, collasped lung, internal bleeding and had to spend 9 months in a body cast after I woke up. It was 1965.

]]> By: Cindy http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-29241 Cindy Wed, 29 Apr 2009 16:06:52 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-29241 When I was 2 and half years old, I got hit by a car doing 45 miles an hour. I was in a coma for about 2 months. They tought I was going to die. A priest came in (I was on my last rights) and said a prayer for me. The next morning the blessed mother appeared to my mother and told her I was going to be ok. About 20 minutes later the phone rang, it was the hospital saying that I woke up and appeared to be fine. I still had a broken leg in 3 places but everything else was healed. They couldn't explain it. I have always wondered why my life was spared. I have always felt this incredible closeness to god. Just wanted to share my story and see what you think... When I was 2 and half years old, I got hit by a car doing 45 miles an hour. I was in a coma for about 2 months. They tought I was going to die. A priest came in (I was on my last rights) and said a prayer for me. The next morning the blessed mother appeared to my mother and told her I was going to be ok. About 20 minutes later the phone rang, it was the hospital saying that I woke up and appeared to be fine. I still had a broken leg in 3 places but everything else was healed. They couldn’t explain it. I have always wondered why my life was spared. I have always felt this incredible closeness to god. Just wanted to share my story and see what you think…

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-28278 Sister Julie Wed, 15 Apr 2009 20:06:40 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-28278 Hi Mel, I'm not familiar with many of them. I wrote another post that has some more references -- <a href="http://anunslife.org/2008/09/17/catholic-nun-question/" rel="nofollow">Do you have to be Catholic to be a nun?</a> Is there a particular Christian tradition within which you would be looking for a community? Let me know and I can do a bit more research for you. You might also contact the <a href="http://benedictinewomen.org/" rel="nofollow">Benedictine Women of Madison</a> and ask for their advice because they are probably more familiar with the different communities of Christian sisters and nuns. Hi Mel, I’m not familiar with many of them. I wrote another post that has some more references — Do you have to be Catholic to be a nun? Is there a particular Christian tradition within which you would be looking for a community? Let me know and I can do a bit more research for you. You might also contact the Benedictine Women of Madison and ask for their advice because they are probably more familiar with the different communities of Christian sisters and nuns.

]]> By: mel http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-28158 mel Tue, 14 Apr 2009 10:41:02 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-28158 do you have other examples of christian but non-catholic orders? for the past three easters i have been thinking deeply about contemplative life. it is kind of scary, but this blog has been really helpful. after talking with my pastor about it some, i believe it could be a possibility, your description of discernment is incredibly reassuring. but i'm not catholic, and altho i'm open to conversion, if there are listings of other orders, i'd really appreciate it. thanks! do you have other examples of christian but non-catholic orders? for the past three easters i have been thinking deeply about contemplative life. it is kind of scary, but this blog has been really helpful. after talking with my pastor about it some, i believe it could be a possibility, your description of discernment is incredibly reassuring. but i’m not catholic, and altho i’m open to conversion, if there are listings of other orders, i’d really appreciate it. thanks!

]]> By: joephil http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-27211 joephil Mon, 30 Mar 2009 07:26:45 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-27211 i have been searching religious sites and now I found the best one!!!It is really makes people more informed and be guided especially to know what really God's desire for every person's life. I have been teaching here In China for almost a year and really enjoy with my Chinese students.Though, it's really enjoy and really can help them;my life still searching and finding what really God's desire for my life...thinking something,and let my mind be in peace,but it keeps asking why?what?...something I can't really understand.Sometimes I thought What does really God want me?and one day,when I was in my room...there was a thought saying,I would be a nun...I dont know if It's God calling or I have the calling from God. i have been searching religious sites and now I found the best one!!!It is really makes people more informed and be guided especially to know what really God’s desire for every person’s life.

I have been teaching here In China for almost a year and really enjoy with my Chinese students.Though, it’s really enjoy and really can help them;my life still searching and finding what really God’s desire for my life…thinking something,and let my mind be in peace,but it keeps asking why?what?…something I can’t really understand.Sometimes I thought What does really God want me?and one day,when I was in my room…there was a thought saying,I would be a nun…I dont know if It’s God calling or I have the calling from God.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-28471 Sister Julie Fri, 27 Mar 2009 15:56:15 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-28471 Hi Mary-Elizabeth. That's a big question! Religious communities are as different as families are different. There's the same basic structure but how each lives it's mission and the gospel is unique. Some are cloistered, some are living in the world. Some are missionaries in other countries, others are missionaries in their local community. Some take jobs in the "secular" sphere, others within parishes or other Church ministries. It varies greatly. I'll shoot you an email to see what you are thinking about in this regard. I encourage you to get to know some sisters now and look into what religious life is. And thirty is not too old to actively pursue becoming a nun! Hi Mary-Elizabeth. That’s a big question! Religious communities are as different as families are different. There’s the same basic structure but how each lives it’s mission and the gospel is unique. Some are cloistered, some are living in the world. Some are missionaries in other countries, others are missionaries in their local community. Some take jobs in the “secular” sphere, others within parishes or other Church ministries. It varies greatly. I’ll shoot you an email to see what you are thinking about in this regard. I encourage you to get to know some sisters now and look into what religious life is. And thirty is not too old to actively pursue becoming a nun!

]]> By: Mary-Elizabeth http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-26752 Mary-Elizabeth Mon, 23 Mar 2009 23:27:38 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-26752 Howdy! I am 18 and I live in Texas and everytime I come back to this website and read this I feel very comforted. I have thought about becomming a nun since I was 10, and I feel this need to keep that option open. I am a freshman at Texas A&M University, and I am studying pre-medicine. I was wondering if I could ask for some general information about some of the orders. What makes them unique from one another? I would like to finish college and medical school before I decide, and to get out of debt may take until I am 30. But if I still feel this way and I still feel God is calling me to do this, then I hope 30 isn't too old to start! THank you for answering my questions! Howdy!

I am 18 and I live in Texas and everytime I come back to this website and read this I feel very comforted. I have thought about becomming a nun since I was 10, and I feel this need to keep that option open. I am a freshman at Texas A&M University, and I am studying pre-medicine.

I was wondering if I could ask for some general information about some of the orders. What makes them unique from one another? I would like to finish college and medical school before I decide, and to get out of debt may take until I am 30. But if I still feel this way and I still feel God is calling me to do this, then I hope 30 isn’t too old to start!

THank you for answering my questions!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-22697 Sister Julie Mon, 02 Feb 2009 17:24:04 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-22697 Hi Amy! I can never find anyone on Facebook even though they are there! I'm Julie Vieira IHM (using "Sister" is illegal!). I found you and sent you a friend request. I'm not familiar with communities that are specifically charismatic although I know there are charismatic sisters. Perhaps others could respond here about what they know about charismatic communities. And yes, there are many American nuns abroad, including Rome. My own IHM nun, Sister Sharon Holland, works at the Vatican. Is there a specific community or kind of community that you are looking for? E.g., contemplative, international, missionary, teaching, active in the world, cloistered, teaching, etc.? If you are interested in connecting with other people discerning God's call, check out the Vocation Forum here on A Nun's Life: http://anunslife.org/vocationforum . Blessings, Amy. http://anunslife.org/vocationforum Hi Amy! I can never find anyone on Facebook even though they are there! I’m Julie Vieira IHM (using “Sister” is illegal!). I found you and sent you a friend request.

I’m not familiar with communities that are specifically charismatic although I know there are charismatic sisters. Perhaps others could respond here about what they know about charismatic communities. And yes, there are many American nuns abroad, including Rome. My own IHM nun, Sister Sharon Holland, works at the Vatican. Is there a specific community or kind of community that you are looking for? E.g., contemplative, international, missionary, teaching, active in the world, cloistered, teaching, etc.?

If you are interested in connecting with other people discerning God’s call, check out the Vocation Forum here on A Nun’s Life: http://anunslife.org/vocationforum . Blessings, Amy.
http://anunslife.org/vocationforum

]]> By: Amy http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-22691 Amy Mon, 02 Feb 2009 16:10:04 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-22691 Thanks for this website! How do I friend you on facebook Sister Julie? Is that enough info? I was Episcopalian and converted three years ago, are there any charismatic orders out there in the US or abroad? God bless, Amy PS I feel a strong call, but am unsure how to proceed, are there American nuns in Rome? Went there and loved it! Thanks for this website! How do I friend you on facebook Sister Julie? Is that enough info? I was Episcopalian and converted three years ago, are there any charismatic orders out there in the US or abroad?
God bless,
Amy

PS I feel a strong call, but am unsure how to proceed, are there American nuns in Rome? Went there and loved it!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-20678 Sister Julie Tue, 06 Jan 2009 12:44:38 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-20678 Yes! <a href="http://www.vocation-network.org/" rel="nofollow">Vision Vocation Network</a> is probably one of the best online resources for connecting with a religious community. They also have good stuff on discernment and vocations in general. LOVE the comment about <a href="http://www.vocation-network.org/match" rel="nofollow">Vocation Match</a>! Yes! Vision Vocation Network is probably one of the best online resources for connecting with a religious community. They also have good stuff on discernment and vocations in general. LOVE the comment about Vocation Match!

]]> By: Sister Pat Farrell, OP http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-20631 Sister Pat Farrell, OP Mon, 05 Jan 2009 16:18:48 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-20631 This is great information, Sister Julie! Very thorough and helpful. And I do recommend the Vocation Match component at VISION Vocation Network. A woman who was recently visiting us said she was much more successful finding matches there, than on match.com! This is great information, Sister Julie! Very thorough and helpful. And I do recommend the Vocation Match component at VISION Vocation Network. A woman who was recently visiting us said she was much more successful finding matches there, than on match.com!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-20679 Sister Julie Mon, 05 Jan 2009 10:48:43 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-20679 Rachel, Thank you so much for writing! I absolutely love your idea and am so glad that it gave you a good opening to be with the sisters. And I think that "Bake it and pray" are great words to live by. Blessings to you as you continue to get to know the sisters and grow in the love of God. Rachel, Thank you so much for writing! I absolutely love your idea and am so glad that it gave you a good opening to be with the sisters. And I think that “Bake it and pray” are great words to live by. Blessings to you as you continue to get to know the sisters and grow in the love of God.

]]> By: Rachel http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-20603 Rachel Mon, 05 Jan 2009 06:29:10 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-20603 Hello, Sister Julie… It’s a pleasure to meet you (even though it’s by on-line wordage). Your site is quite extensive. I have yet to begin to read it all, but I have all the intent to read the numerous soliloquies (along with the informative captions you have here and there). Needless to say, I think your site is lovely. Means that I couldn’t sleep, I decided to send you a word or two (or should I say several). In all earnest, I stumbled onto your site, oh, I’d say, a month ago, and I have yet to write you. And, well, there’s something I’d like to share… I just wanted to say that I have devised another strategy to get to know Sisters (4). I’m pleased to say I used a holiday as an excuse (although no reason is as good as any) to bake them an obscure European pastry of which they’ve never heard of. Needless to say, it was a success! ((Talk about praying! I may have been bold and daring, but I was equally unsure (almost nervous) as to whether they would find my little pastry pleasing.)) The joy of baking… Voila! Bombarded with compliments! Big relief! A wonderful door of opportunity (though just a beginning) has opened widely. My Summation: Bake it and pray. (I think I’ll be having tea sometime this month with one of them… Maybe three. Mission accomplished.) May you be in good health and spirit, R. Hello, Sister Julie… It’s a pleasure to meet you (even though it’s by on-line wordage). Your site is quite extensive. I have yet to begin to read it all, but I have all the intent to read the numerous soliloquies (along with the informative captions you have here and there). Needless to say, I think your site is lovely.

Means that I couldn’t sleep, I decided to send you a word or two (or should I say several). In all earnest, I stumbled onto your site, oh, I’d say, a month ago, and I have yet to write you. And, well, there’s something I’d like to share… I just wanted to say that I have devised another strategy to get to know Sisters (4). I’m pleased to say I used a holiday as an excuse (although no reason is as good as any) to bake them an obscure European pastry of which they’ve never heard of.

Needless to say, it was a success! ((Talk about praying! I may have been bold and daring, but I was equally unsure (almost nervous) as to whether they would find my little pastry pleasing.)) The joy of baking… Voila! Bombarded with compliments! Big relief! A wonderful door of opportunity (though just a beginning) has opened widely.

My Summation: Bake it and pray. (I think I’ll be having tea sometime this month with one of them… Maybe three. Mission accomplished.)

May you be in good health and spirit,
R.

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-20379 Sister Julie Wed, 31 Dec 2008 17:04:57 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-20379 Thanks for the info, Robyn. I'll be visiting the<a href="http://www.tssf.org/" rel="nofollow"> Third Order Society of Saint Francis website</a> to learn more about your community. Thanks for the info, Robyn. I’ll be visiting the Third Order Society of Saint Francis website to learn more about your community.

]]> By: Sr Robyn TSSF http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-20361 Sr Robyn TSSF Wed, 31 Dec 2008 07:11:54 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-20361 There are also Orders for non-Catholic women. I am an Anglican, and professed member of the Third Order Society of St Francis, which is an order for married, single, ordained, lay, male, or female members. We area "community in dispersion" - we have a common Rule, make full life vows, and meet regularly for prayer and Eucharist, but pursue ordinary occupations. I'm married with a small daughter, work full-time, and am still a Sister! Works well for me! The Third Order is not an Associate programme, as we are an Order in our own right and make the three vows of simplicity, chastity (interpreted as not possessing people - if married, being only with your spouse, and if single, not sexually active), and obedience to our Order and our Bishops. TSSF is all over the world, with a big presence in Australia and New Zealand. Pax Robyn There are also Orders for non-Catholic women. I am an Anglican, and professed member of the Third Order Society of St Francis, which is an order for married, single, ordained, lay, male, or female members. We area “community in dispersion” – we have a common Rule, make full life vows, and meet regularly for prayer and Eucharist, but pursue ordinary occupations. I’m married with a small daughter, work full-time, and am still a Sister! Works well for me!

The Third Order is not an Associate programme, as we are an Order in our own right and make the three vows of simplicity, chastity (interpreted as not possessing people – if married, being only with your spouse, and if single, not sexually active), and obedience to our Order and our Bishops.

TSSF is all over the world, with a big presence in Australia and New Zealand.

Pax
Robyn

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-20333 Sister Julie Tue, 30 Dec 2008 16:26:18 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-20333 Dear Deborah, thank you for asking. Please visit Sister Mary Bea, my IHM Sister who works with people who want to become an IHM Sister. <a href="http://www.ihmsisters.org/www/Ways_of_Joining_Us/intropage.asp" rel="nofollow">Click here for her contact information.</a> Blessings! Dear Deborah, thank you for asking. Please visit Sister Mary Bea, my IHM Sister who works with people who want to become an IHM Sister. Click here for her contact information. Blessings!

]]> By: Deborah http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-20272 Deborah Tue, 30 Dec 2008 01:13:37 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-20272 Can you send me any liturature on how to become a nun? Thank You & Blessings... Can you send me any liturature on how to become a nun?

Thank You & Blessings…

]]> By: sandy, csj http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-17002 sandy, csj Fri, 21 Nov 2008 15:57:32 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-17002 Thanks, Julie....I'm going to put in a link to this page... sy Thanks, Julie….I’m going to put in a link to this page…
sy

]]> By: Tara http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-16987 Tara Fri, 21 Nov 2008 12:26:14 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-16987 Dear Angela, A new religious community has been established in the Archdiocese of Perth, called the Missionaries of the Gospel. I would recommend them to you if you are discerning. Their website is: http://www.mg.org.au. God bless you! In the Lord, Tara Dear Angela,

A new religious community has been established in the Archdiocese of Perth, called the Missionaries of the Gospel. I would recommend them to you if you are discerning. Their website is: http://www.mg.org.au.

God bless you!

In the Lord,
Tara

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-16884 Sister Julie Thu, 20 Nov 2008 13:52:04 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-16884 Ray ... yes, I think much of this could apply for becoming a monk or brother. Discerning God's call is something we all have in common! ChristineH ... great suggestion! Thanks for reaching out to others. Sarah ... Glad you found this site too and I'm happy to know that you know my nuns too. I remember my discernment time to be pretty exciting but also a little scary because I didn't know what to expect and was nervous about concretizing my "possible" attraction to religious life by (God forbid) actually making contact with a religious community!!! Fortunately I already knew nuns personally but it took a little while even to let them know that I might want to be part of the sisterhood that they had given their lives to. Ray … yes, I think much of this could apply for becoming a monk or brother. Discerning God’s call is something we all have in common!

ChristineH … great suggestion! Thanks for reaching out to others.

Sarah … Glad you found this site too and I’m happy to know that you know my nuns too.

I remember my discernment time to be pretty exciting but also a little scary because I didn’t know what to expect and was nervous about concretizing my “possible” attraction to religious life by (God forbid) actually making contact with a religious community!!! Fortunately I already knew nuns personally but it took a little while even to let them know that I might want to be part of the sisterhood that they had given their lives to.

]]> By: Sarah http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-16880 Sarah Thu, 20 Nov 2008 12:04:04 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-16880 Hi! Thanks so much for the information. I have been looking at religious life since I was in 8th grade and am currently a sophomore in college, and have looked at many different list of the pocess but you seem to be the most condensed and easy to understand. I enjoy your blog and think it is wonderful how you share the life an IHM with all those who are discerning their call, it is a really eay way to see inside without comitting to anything before your ready to become involved with orders on a personal level. I am so happy that the IHM sisters that I know told me about this site because it is nice to know there is a blog even for us discerners! God Bless! Hi!

Thanks so much for the information. I have been looking at religious life since I was in 8th grade and am currently a sophomore in college, and have looked at many different list of the pocess but you seem to be the most condensed and easy to understand.

I enjoy your blog and think it is wonderful how you share the life an IHM with all those who are discerning their call, it is a really eay way to see inside without comitting to anything before your ready to become involved with orders on a personal level. I am so happy that the IHM sisters that I know told me about this site because it is nice to know there is a blog even for us discerners! God Bless!

]]> By: ChristineH http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-16851 ChristineH Thu, 20 Nov 2008 03:27:24 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-16851 Angela, Welcome! If you want to find a couple of fellow Aussies - click onto the Vocation Forum tab at the top of this page. There are two of us there, myself Christine H and Discerner from Down Under. Blessings Christine H Angela,

Welcome!

If you want to find a couple of fellow Aussies – click onto the Vocation Forum tab at the top of this page.

There are two of us there, myself Christine H and Discerner from Down Under.

Blessings
Christine H

]]> By: Ray http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-16802 Ray Wed, 19 Nov 2008 18:32:04 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-16802 Sister, I think this is a great and wonderful explanation in plain English about religious life and can be applied to both male and female aspirants (can't forget those monks and brothers, haha ;-)). For me one of the biggest concerns has always been debt since I'm still in college and the cost of education (especially at a private school) is astronomical. As you say though, vocation directors are always open about talking about any of the spiritual and practical aspects of the process. The discerning process seems monumental, but by the same token exciting as well so for anyone who's discerning, I hope you don't give up! Sister, I think this is a great and wonderful explanation in plain English about religious life and can be applied to both male and female aspirants (can’t forget those monks and brothers, haha ;-) ). For me one of the biggest concerns has always been debt since I’m still in college and the cost of education (especially at a private school) is astronomical.

As you say though, vocation directors are always open about talking about any of the spiritual and practical aspects of the process. The discerning process seems monumental, but by the same token exciting as well so for anyone who’s discerning, I hope you don’t give up!

]]> By: Sister Julie http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-16650 Sister Julie Tue, 18 Nov 2008 02:32:32 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-16650 Dear Angela, Thank you for writing. It sounds like you're in a good place of openness to whatever adventure God invites you into. These steps are similar in Australia as well as throughout the Universal Church. There are of course nuances across countries, dioceses, and even individual congregations. Let me do some looking for you. One place to start is Sister Sarah's blog <a href="http://thenunthing.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">The Nun Thing</a>. Sarah is a novice sister with a community in Australia. You can contact her via her blog. You might also check in with the <a href="http://www.mercy.org.au/" rel="nofollow">Sisters of Mercy of Australia</a>. I'll let you know if I think of others. Blessings. Sister Julie Dear Angela, Thank you for writing. It sounds like you’re in a good place of openness to whatever adventure God invites you into. These steps are similar in Australia as well as throughout the Universal Church. There are of course nuances across countries, dioceses, and even individual congregations.

Let me do some looking for you. One place to start is Sister Sarah’s blog The Nun Thing. Sarah is a novice sister with a community in Australia. You can contact her via her blog. You might also check in with the Sisters of Mercy of Australia. I’ll let you know if I think of others. Blessings. Sister Julie

]]> By: Angela http://anunslife.org/resources/how-to-become-a-catholic-nun/#comment-16639 Angela Tue, 18 Nov 2008 01:06:26 +0000 http://anunslife.org/?page_id=798#comment-16639 God bless you. This is a wonderful insight into becoming a religious; it is something that I often contemplated as a child. I'm now 32 and single, and have returned to study to become a primary school teacher. I'm exploring my calling through becoming more involved in my church and praying for guidance. The Lord has led me along this path and I often wonder where I might end up, but this is for Him to know and me to find out. I place my trust and faith in Him. Would the above steps be similiar in Australia? Is there someone you could direct me to here in Western Australia to speak with? I appreciate any input on your behalf in advance. Kind regards, Angela. God bless you. This is a wonderful insight into becoming a religious; it is something that I often contemplated as a child. I’m now 32 and single, and have returned to study to become a primary school teacher. I’m exploring my calling through becoming more involved in my church and praying for guidance. The Lord has led me along this path and I often wonder where I might end up, but this is for Him to know and me to find out. I place my trust and faith in Him. Would the above steps be similiar in Australia? Is there someone you could direct me to here in Western Australia to speak with? I appreciate any input on your behalf in advance. Kind regards, Angela.

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